Don’t Just Be a Loving Parent.
Be a Conscious One
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As Parents, We Always Intend To Do Our Best…
And It Never Seems To Be Enough
Yes, everyone told us children don’t come with an instruction manual. But we never knew what that literally meant until we felt we needed one.
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What do I do in the face of my kid’s challenging behavior?
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How can I make sure I am doing what’s best for my children?
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Why do I get so entangled with him/her?
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How can I give them the best of me… without losing myself in the process?
There is always a new phase to deal with; a new challenge, interference, change, disruption, adjustment.
> Either due to internal or external factors, we are frequently being called to update and upgrade our parenting operating system.
All this while graciously taking care of staying centered in the love and enjoyment of ourselves, our children, our lives, and in the process of parenting itself.
What a ride!
Oh, by the way. I’m Evelyn. I’m a Conscious Parenting and Awakening Coach. And I can support you in bringing to light the best parent you can be, by guiding you back to the Truths you and your children gave away in the process of being raised by adults with their own unprocessed pains and stories.
Here’s my conviction:
For the Sake of Evolution, Peace, and a Deeper Sense of Happiness, You, Your Children, and Today’s World Need a New —Conscious— Way of Parenting
> So how can you honestly support and inspire your kids to soar and thrive as authentic, awakened and empowered beings, in an environment that pushes for conformity and standardization?
If you have children several years apart, you most surely feel a relevant difference between them, as well as in the skills you need to raise them both!
Everyone —and everything– is evolving at an accelerated pace. Many elements in the world are changing way too fast.
Just consider all the new factors the internet brought into the picture: new ways of communication; a new meaning for pivotal concepts as “privacy”, “respect” and “self-esteem”; blurred boundaries; overexposure; redirection of interests, and so countless more.
To successfully handle all that requires very specific cognitive, emotional, tactical and spiritual skills.
Let me ask you:
Are you mechanically raising your kids in fundamentally the same way your parents raised you?
If we want our kids to grow into self-loving, confident, aware, and fulfilled adults, we need to embrace a radically different mindset and a conscious approach when it comes to parenting.
To support your children in becoming their true magnificent self, you need to connect to your own true magnificent self first. There is no other way.
For that, you need to go through a personal journey of awareness, while not being sucked in by the hypnotic effect of the matrix we live in.
Primarily, the genuine work at hand is your own. Would you do that for your children?
You need to unlearn what’s outdated and dysfunctional; what doesn’t belong to you but was spoon-fed to you; what keeps you asleep and robotized by an anesthetized society.
Because here’s the thing…
Parenting, as we have understood
and practiced it so far, is dysfunctional and insufficient
Of course, within time, parenting has evolved and become more sophisticated. But even though the form has changed, the substance has remained.
As human history evolves, we all demand more freedom and our right to express ourselves freely. But traditional parenting is not suited for such a call.
The reason: it’s based on authority, fear, and hierarchy, not in respect, trust, and negotiation.
This imbalance and struggle for power cause painful conflicts between the parts: the children instinctively asking for freedom in an environment with too many options; and the parents untrained to handle those challenges effectively while operating from an energy of fear, distrust, and self-unworthiness.
Traditional resolutions of those conflicts are creating even greater ones. The cause being the gap between the mindsets of conventional parents and the evolutionary impulse of their children.
Either openly or silently, family members are speaking different languages and experiencing different worlds. If not now, they will be in a few years.
We definitively have to upgrade our ways of parenting.
For ourselves.
For our children.
For our family.
For our society.
For humanity.
But intention is not enough.
Because we are surrounded by…
The Challenges of Being the Parents Our Kids Need Us to Be; Hence They Can Grow as Their Authentic Loving Selves, Awakened, Empowered and Fulfilled Individuals
We are conditioned to be unconscious and reactive about our parenting.
We live such a busy life we tend not to question our parenting philosophy. And when we get to think about how to improve our “performance”, we habitually use a broken element of comparison as reference: our memories about how our parents raised us. That model keeps us in a loop of inadequacy and frustration. Sometimes even desperation.We hold the belief that parenting is about the children, not about the parents.
From that idea, we put all our attention on our kids and their behavior. We are convinced that the best way to support them is to “fix” them so they can succeed, be safe and happy. We do this under the influence of our pretentious expectations and our unattended personal issues. Ironically, we have kept ourselves so busy evaluating our children that we haven’t considered the magnifier glass should be on us.By we neglecting our awakening, we project all our unseen and unresolved themes on our children.
Your spouse, family or friends clinging to the old paradigm of traditional parenting.
With their well-intentioned opinions, bits of advice and perspectives, they are also a challenge to face when it comes to being a Conscious Parent. Their judgments and questioning of our parenting decisions are, more often than not, roadblocks we have to deal with.School systems are based on standardization, not self-expression.
The focus of current education is in memorizing and repeating, not in creativity and excitement. The system protects the industrialized status quo, instead of focusing on the kid’s core soul signature expressed through their passions, natural talents, interests, and individual rhythms. Schools and the traditional education system they abide by are soulless. This fosters in the children a disconnection from the excitement and joy for learning.These are just a few of our contemporary challenges when it comes to being a conscious parent.
Fortunately, there’s a better way…
The Way of the Conscious Individual-Parent
To become an Empowered Conscious Parent is to take the blinders off.
It means to raise your awareness about the astounding opportunities you and your kids have for personal evolution and ecstatic freedom.
It’s about opening yourself and your family to a new way of interacting, learning, growing, communicating, and even loving.
Ultimately, being an Empowered Conscious Parent is about capitalizing experiences to live deeply and effectively your role as the supporter of your children’s lives.
To become an Empowered Conscious Parent will provide you with cognitive, emotional, tactical and spiritual skills. Those that are required to deal with the parenting challenges of these times, in resourceful and practical ways.
Let’s be clear: this is not about memorizing techniques, learning tricks, behaviorism, or following patterns.
It’s about making healthier, aligned, respectful, powerful, liberating, functional, and conscious choices.
It’s about taking your intuition to a whole new level.
It’s about redefining concepts as personal power, authority, discipline, rules, and much more.
In short:
Being an Empowered Conscious Parent is about unlearning what is not working for you and your family anymore, and awakening to your True Essence, while supporting your children in their own journey of awakening to theirs.
And to learn –using your day-to-day experience as the raw material– a new way of being a mom or dad.
A way that will reflect not only in how you go about your parenting but also in what we want most: our children’s true wellbeing, the one that comes from them being in alignment with their Soul.
C’mon! You and your kids are sacred beings. You both deserve more than a fancy, old-school psychological or pet’s training approach.
Don’t you agree?
That’s why I invite you to…
Be The Empowered Conscious Parent
That Your Kids Really Need You to Be, So You Can…
Do this for them…
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Plant the seeds that will help your kids to develop healthy and powerful criteria, from their own preferences and authenticity, without your interference and control.
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Support your children in their journey and during their challenges, as they surf the waves of their natural phases of evolution, trusting and respecting their wisdom.
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Provide them with the tools to make healthy choices in life, in alignment with their excitement.
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Know how to relate to your children from a space of respect, while supporting them with using your wisdom and experience.
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Enable your children to connect with their intuition, higher guidance, and their passion and voice.
Do this for yourself…
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Impulse your spiritual awakening beyond your religion or beliefs, and expand your consciousness to levels you never imagined.
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Be in flow despite your kid’s challenging behaviors, responding as an Empowered Conscious Parent rather than reacting unconsciously from your wounds and stories.
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Free yourself from shame, blaming and justifying, and feel at peace with your parenting choices, learning to be kinder and forgiving towards your personal self.
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Enjoy extra free-time and a lighter vibe, out of having less struggle with your kids, and a more harmonious atmosphere at home.
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Feel confident and have peace of mind knowing you are intentionally giving your children: the best of you, and tools you actually believe in.
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Empower yourself and your family to thrive and grow as integrated, enthusiastic, genuine, and soulful individuals.
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Navigate with patience, empathy, and flair through your children’s developmental phases, and your personal journey of transformation.
We all want that for our children.
And for ourselves.
But…
You Might Be Wondering How You’re Going to «Survive» the Intensity and Demands That You Already Have as a Parent, “Just” by Becoming a Conscious Mom/Dad
I have felt that very same way at different stages in my son’s and stepdaughter’s evolution.
At the beginning of my journey as a mother, the intensity of being challenged by my son’s bright and untameable spirit was quite intense for me.
Especially after having had a very rigid upbringing that left me with a cumbersome amount of wounds.
By the time my child was born I had to deal with my own set of dysfunctional childhood’s stories, on top of the natural challenges of being a new mom.
Add to that the test of being a stepmom (twice in my life).
But over the years, I reached out to coaches and mentors in parenting and dove deep into spiritual studies. I investigated and mastered quite some things about what actually work and what didn’t.
In fact, I managed to never experience the so-called “terrible two’s”, and so far, my children’s adolescence is a fascinating tour. We flowed magnificently as a family with the changes and challenges of adventures as divorce; remarriage; emigration; new language, culture and traditions; separation, and others. All this without counting with daily family assistance.
But not only I survived but we all thrived! ;-)
Additionally, and thanks to a natural intuitive ability I discovered I had as a mom and also as an awakening coach, I developed systems to make the process an enjoyable and efficient one, both for myself and for my clients.
So whatever parenting challenge
you’re now facing…
I Am Here to Support You. But You Might be thinking…
“Yeah, But Why YOU, Evelyn? Why Should I Work With You?”
I had always feel drawn to spiritual themes. In particular for what I now call expansion of consciousness. So I gravitated towards exploring spirituality for many years, without a 100% success rate regarding making its principles work in every area of my life.
But I had a burning desire to raise my child in a different way than how I was raised.
That provided me with all the inspiration I needed to live my personal life in a more conscious, confident, and deliberate way, in order for my motherhood to blossom.
But you didn’t hear that much about «conscious parenting» back then (even now, the world is just in diapers phase when it comes to conscious parenting).
So I started collecting pieces of diverse parenting philosophies, as well as advice here and there. I was doing my best to put them together with my spiritual paradigms so that things would make sense and I could use them.
Along the way, back in the days, I had my dose of tough moments. Some VERY tough, like when my kid didn’t sleep 3 hours straight for 13 months!
And a breastfeeding experience that almost end with forced surgery which didn’t happen and we had 13 divine months of breastfeeding on demand (actually only 10 were divine, the first 3 the pain was excruciating!)
I also had marvelous breakthroughs –which I still keep having as I keep expanding… and my children keeps growing! (my son and stepdaughter are loving, shining teenagers now).
The more I experienced the powerful results of applying the principles I was learning, both as a mom and as an individual, the more I connected with the vision of becoming a catalyst and guide for others.
That’s what I’ve been doing for the past 7 years: designing and conducting Coaching Programs. That’s one of my highest excitements plus my career, along with being the co-founder of The Excitement Movement with Leo my best-friend/husband/partner-in-biz-and-adventures.
I currently have coaching clients all around the world, as Leo and I design and lead Coaching and Awakening Online Programs and powerful content through our most exciting project ever: The Excitement Movement.
My point in sharing these pieces of the story is to let you know that I have been there, done that (most probably there’s a t-shirt but never got one).
I can accompany you get where you want to go as a mom or dad, while you blossom in your own individual journey. And using my unique intuition, perspectives, and experiences, I can guide and support you in getting there quicker and with much less struggle, than if you did it on your own.
My coaching will not only help you as a parent. Since it works at the level of the individual soul and human being you are, It will also add to any vision you might have about who and what you feel the call to keep tuning into.
So I have this question for you…
Would You Like to Be The Next Mom or Dad I Help?
2yrs. years ago I was feeling trapped in my life. I used to have panic attacks more frequently as time passed by… until I found Evelyn and started my coaching program with her.
Her non traditional point of view and loving support helped me realign. I learned how to follow my intuition and connect with my true self. This radically changed my way of feeling and relating to all circumstances in my life.
My relationship with my kid and my own perception of motherhood changed drastically as a consequence. At the end, I let magic happen and my life changed for the better in every way.
Carolina Mendoza, GermanyI do not have words to express how my life changed after being connected with Evelyn and her parenting program.
I realized with Evelyn that my children were not the problem to focus upon, but me, my beliefs, attitudes and emotions. Before our coaching I was exhausted, tired and frustrated of the continuous discussions, disputes, and warnings ending in unfulfilled threats or punishments. Technically I had lost my credibility.
After our process I have a different look of being a Mom. Today my kids are a great source of expansion for myself. They are the reliable mirror of who I am, and this exercise has been super rewarding and liberating. Since I finished my coaching process, there has been neither discussions nor punishments, but conversations and logical or natural consequences for inappropriate behaviors. The energy at the house is so different!
Anyrt Granados, CanadaBefore my coaching with Evelyn, being a mom was a struggle. Now I understand my main relationship is with myself and there is nothing wrong with my son. I pay more attention to my own issues and I learn to realign my vibe so I can be a better mom.
Before, I felt I was a “lousy mom”. Now? I totally get I am the perfect mom for MY son, and we are together because we have chosen each other at the soul level.
Susana Castro, Orlando, FLBeing new parents, we had a lot of doubts and questions. Not only about parenthood, but also… couplehood!
The baby added an excitement and exhaustion that we did not know how to handle.
Through the coaching process with Evelyn, we have learned to connect and trust our intuition as parents, and to live even the toughest of moments, from a light and joyful energy. So much so, we are moving to a new country to start a new life even before our beloved son turns 1yr old!
Oswaldo & Claudia Bazan, MexicoThis Is The Fastest Way To Start —or Reinforce—
Your Journey As an Empowered Conscious Parent
I was already operating in my personal life, and working with my clients from a «conscious parenting paradigm», and the parallelism between Tsabari’s philosophy and mine was shocking to me.
Even friends and clients have called me several times to say that watching Tsabari’s videos or reading her book brought my image immediately to their minds.
Her work being praised by Oprah, the Dalai Lama, Marianne Williamson, Eckart Tolle, Marci Shimoff and many other well-respected authors, educators, and psychologists, made easy for me to acknowledge her work was a very special one that needed to be supported and made known to as many parents as possible.
But a Book is Not a Recipe…
We need tailor-made explorations and direction.
At the same time, most surely you relate to one or more of the following situations:
“Is either a matter of lacking time or focus, but I can’t seem to finish reading a whole book!” (the perks of being a parent, right?)
“Sometimes I end up even more confused after reading a parenting book. I’m not sure if I’m reading it from my point of view as the parent I am , or I get lost in the memories of the child I once was”.
“I can totally see the value in the concepts the author share, but I have no idea how to implement them in my daily life. My case is so unique”.
Having had myself the previous experiences at one moment or other in my life, I decided to open safe and guided spaces for dads and moms to support them in the process of becoming Conscious Parents.
That way, they would not only progressively study «The Conscious Parent» book but they would dive into it, discuss it, question it, and expand in the interaction with other parents.
And above all, learn how to live the deep transformative message of the book, in their individual environment lead by my loving accompaniment, talent, intuition and expertise as parent and awakening coach, and mom.
Join the Next
«Empowered Conscious Parents»
Study & Coaching Group
This study and coaching group process consist of:
- 8 weekly sessions of 90min each
- A Private WhatsApp Group under my personal and continuous support and moderation during the time the Group is active.
The dynamic is as follows:
Each week each participant reads the assigned chapters of «The Conscious Parent» book, previous to the session.
During every session, each participant has the opportunity to ask their particular questions and engage in a laser-coaching process with me.
In more than
Expression of Appreciation (a.k.a. “Fee”) for a Coaching Process
2-month Package:
8 x 45min sessions + support via messaging:$2000
SPECIAL NOTE:Since I am looking for study cases to support the writing of my upcoming book, I am offering a special until the end of the year for the 2-month package at $1,600.
Now, I only have a handful of spots available every month for new clients.
So let’s do this:
Schedule a FREE 20-minutes Skype or Phone Consultation With Me
At the end of our call, if we both feel we are a match made in heaven, we will discuss your options to engage in an Empowering Conscious Parenting coaching process.
To get your FREE call scheduled, just click here:
INDECISION… that was my main issue. How can you get to see with clarity what you have not been able to see in a long time, in a half-hour session? Evelyn’s amazing guidance, her words and coaching skill guided me to connect with the choice that most resonated in my heart. The result? My levels of energy, happiness and mental clarity increased in an instant!!!
María Lobo, SpainEven though I am not yet a mom, motherhood represented a huge challenge for me. Just the idea was scary. My thoughts were “I won’t be able to handle it”, “I am not capable”, “Other women might have been born for this but not me!”.
Evelyn’s witty and loving way, helped me in transforming my perspectives about motherhood. My fears became curiosity, and finally that turned into a burning desire to be a mom.
I now feel so much lighter and happily connected to motherhood. Now I know I have what I need to be a great mom and see myself with loving eyes.
Verónica Gunther, ArgentinaI used to frequently get entangle with my kids, angry at them and myself, loosing my patience.
As I moved along the coaching process with Evelyn, I learned to see myself and deal with my own emotions. By releasing beliefs I now know how to handle tough moments from a whole new energy. Specially my 5yrs old behaves more smoothly as soon as I shift my energy.
I know there is a lot to keep walking on my path as a mom, but I am a whole new mom. Having Evelyn as a coach has been a fascinating and empowering experience.
Cristina Salazar, MexicoMy fears to make decisions had me almost paralyzed when I started my coaching process with Evelyn. Her support was extraordinary and made the difference.
After our process and having lived her and her husband’s coaching programs, I have started my own blog, certified myself as Professional Speaker, launched a new business, and moved to another country enjoying a new expanded perspective in life.
Felix Sanchez, Dominican RepublicI had a very dysfunctional childhood, and a lot of wounds to heal. I was feeling I was not good enough, and was afraid to repeat the story with my own children (even though I am not yet a mom).
I even developed an aversion to kids. I couldn’t get close to them! With Evelyn’s support I could see the root of my fears and pain, and started to free myself to write a different story.
I gained enough confidence in myself as to get my Coaching certification, strengthen a loving relationship, and launching my own blog as Coach!
Natalia Goncalves, SpainI look forward to talking with you about how you can be an empowered conscious mom or dad, so you can support your kids in the best way possible for them to grow as self-loving, empowered and happy individuals.
